2022.01.27 22:50 burnhamkerr Do I end things with a guy because I think he would hurt me based on no evidence?
I (22F) have been in a "situationship" with a guy (24) for about a year. It's never been a serious relationship because, even though we share good conversation and sex and I'm fond of him as a person, I know better than actually dating someone diagnosed with a Narcissistic personality disorder and specifically him. Our relationship in more based on sex and a really intimate friendship.
There have been other times I wanted to end things with him and have tried but he would always make up for whatever mistake he had made and I was fine with it, also considering he wasn't my boyfriend.
Lately he's been saying strange things hinting at the fact he'd like if we were more serious, but I have always stated my ground in that sense. So he started to share even more deep parts of his mind and at first I really enjoyed these type of conversations, but soon he started to show a lot more of this enormous rage he has inside. I knew about it but didn't give much thought to it because I too could understand it on some levels.
The point is, he started to describe very graphic thoughts about hurting himself and other people like his parents, how many stabs each. I tried to stay as close to him for what concerns thoughts of hurting himself and urged him to talk about this with his therapist. Those scared because I cared about him, but the comments about the parents froze me. It's safe to say I was scared for myself somehow.
I don't know why, but I always sometimes had little concerns when staying whit him that I brushed off as paranoia. I would think "he could kill me right now" and ask myself if he really could hurt me in any sense, if he was capable of it. I didn't know why because he never put his hands on me if not in consensual BDSM play. I often asked him "as a joke" if he ever had intention to hurt/kill me or someone else and he would always answer stuff like "yes but I would never, I want to become a judge, I can't have any charges against me" in a (semi?) jokingly way.
Anyway I don't have proof or anything that would lead me to think that he would hurt me in a burst of rage, except having seen him in that stage towards his parents. They are not good parents of course, no good parent raises a narcissist. He does not hurt them either of course, he only holds all of this furious rage inside. So I really am sad for him and understand his stance on things, or better from where these feelings come from. But I can't let go these thoughts that are growing in me without a valid reason if not my gut instinct maybe? It could be just paranoia. I would be sad to not see him again, but I don't feel as relaxed with him anymore.
He's not near right now, so we are only calling and texting each other. If I do end things with him it's going to be when he comes home in a month or ever before. Also I don't know how to put it, since he's been saying that I'm the only one he trusts, that all he wants to do is be with me. I feel so guilty when he says stuff like that while I'm thinking of "breaking up" with him. Do I do it? How do you think it would be the right way to do it?
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2022.01.27 22:50 wyatth2002 Song Associated w/ each Member
What song do you associate with each member of the beatles? What songs do you associate with people closely involved with the beatles (for example, Mal, George Martin, Linda, Mo Starkey)
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2022.01.27 22:50 Ionlyeatvegans I think it's likely that James Gunn (Film Director) is a Piiduo. Due to his history online, known to have held a piiduo themed party, & 2 friends (1 now convicted + regi, the other with an on-going case at a NY Supreme Court - w/ Gunns party mentioned as evidence). Its all too coincidental..
I realise at this current time, this is an accusation. A heavy one at that. But, going over Internet history, the recent mentioning of him in the case of 'Mindless Self-indulgence' frontman Jimmy Urine (for sexual assault on a younger) regarding Gunn's piidou themed party as contributing evidence against Urine.
Huston Hiddleston is another one of Gunns friends, now convicted and made to go on the register, press released it was for pleading guilty to possession of explicit images.
The fact Disney got rid of him, and made it out to be about these awfully disgusting tweets - Warner Bros. then pick up him up, all goes away! No mentioning of the case, Disney have re-hired him... Its all too sinister, and coincidences these days tend to not be just coincidences - ESPECIALLY in Hollywood.
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